I've been teaching two non identical twin sisters for about a year now. We meet once a week
at their flat, in a popular central area of Moscow, populated by
wealthy expatriates and by wealthy Russians. We meet for ninety minutes
and they pay me well. Their flat is on the top floor of an old restored
pre-revolutionary building. The flat is massive and about 290 square meters in size.
It has dark hard wood polished floors, high ceilings, a coffee table the size of a my flat
and expensive heavy cream silk curtains on every window in the living room. The girls are well
mannered and polite but rather matter of fact about their situation, probably
because they don't know any different. The mother, we will call "Mrs S" is
separated or divorced. She is the second wife of her daughters father.
The girls father was married before, had a son, met Mrs S, married her,
got her pregnant with twins (the girls I teach) , had an affair with another younger woman, left
her and had a another baby with that new woman. He has fathered four kids, by
three different women.
Mrs S, the blind fool of a woman, still loves him. She is employed by her Ex, maybe out of guilt,
at his company and she works in advertising as an executive. Her daughters, are sent to
summer school in Switzerland and go there every year for two weeks. They have
just returned from a ten day skiing holiday over the New Year in Lech
Austria. They stayed at a hotel called
Hotel Kristiania in Lech (see this
link and room photos). The rooms are 425 Euro per night and I would love to stay there without the rich Russians. Mrs S paid for two rooms and
three club class plane tickets. If that was not enough, they had a daily private
ski instructor. The resort is full of loaded Russians and wealthy loud Americans, that you would probably hear down in the bar from your hotel room as you struggled to get to sleep. The girls told me they spent 20,000 Euro on clothes
shopping while on holiday and claimed back 2,000 Euro in tax at the
airport when they flew back to Russia. The girls were each given an iPod
and an iPhone by their father for Christmas. They have a nanny who collects them from
school and who stays with them till their mother returns home from work each
night. They see their father at weekends, he takes them shopping and
cannot drive, he has a personal driver. Poor little rich girls, I'm sure
their father has installed in them a healthy distrust of men and a distrust of marriage.
I thought I would dislike these girls but I like them, sure they are
privileged but they have been raised well. Money has ensured that. They
told me, when they reach 15, they will go to boarding school in
Switzerland, probably marry a rich Russian, have kids, have a nanny or
nannies and the pattern will continue to mirror their mothers
sad marriage experience. Where they lack a father, they have a comfortable lifestyle
and an unhappy, empty mother who shops. Shopping is their remedy and their drug. I don't like the
mother at all, she is cold, unfriendly and treats me like a servant but she rewards me well, so I ignore it and her attitude. Why are so many women these days attracted to assholes and to men with money?
My reason for mentioning these two girls, is
that it seems to be fairly common for wealthy Russian men to marry many times.
They seem to have a preference for young women and an uncontrollable penis that does not
know loyalty. As I mentioned in my other post "
Through the keyhole",
working in wealthy Russian families is very interesting and is a
sociological study that I find fascinating. Since moving to Moscow, I
have never seen so many wealthy people. Where they get their money from
is a mystery to me. I would never socialize or be friends with such
people but necessity and life's circumstance has meant that I now see
these people in an English for cash relationship. As we say, don't bite
the hand that feeds you but please have a damn good look at it, I certainly. I enjoy having peep at other lives and telling you about it my dear reader.
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Interesting post and lifestyle devoid of the reality most Russians live....
ReplyDeleteThe people you write about are fascinating and sound like a Jeffrey Archer book.
ReplyDeleteBill, I beg to differ, Moscow contains a large population who live just like our poor little rich girls and more!!
ReplyDeletelet it be 5 times in a week for you to teach such "poor little rich girls"!!!! you'll become a millioner and after that you would like to stay here forever))))) for where else could you get so much money))))))))????
ReplyDeleteOleg The Ubiquitous
I'll admit to being fascinated by these rich people. Keep posting :)
ReplyDeleteOleg, You can never become rich by being a teacher.
ReplyDeleteYou are funny as usual, "a coffee table the size of my flat " "an uncontrollable penis that does not know loyalty", :)) I enjoy reading you, it must be interesting to meet all those people that I can only see in movies. :D
ReplyDeleteThey are certainly interesting but not without being very strange. Often Strange badly behaved kids or crazy parents or both !!
ReplyDeleteI like to read you! Yoir opinion about us is so interesting! But do you know any simple russian family? Write more.
ReplyDeleteYes I have Julia, see my Miss X and a gun post. That was a typical simple Moscow family.
ReplyDeleteThat loaded russian daddy with an uncontrolled dick certainly used to be a poor soviet citizen from rural area. Origin of his wealth is unclear but we don't care about it here yet. Indeed, it doesn't matter how they became rich - we want to know all about they boyarian style of living, like children at a zoo want to know all about pandas in a cage. Great stories you wrote, btw!
ReplyDeleteBeing a person who was born and raised in Moscow, I can tell you:
ReplyDeleteRussia is full of people that made quick big bucks on doing dirty pseudo-Capitalistic buisiness (using Western model and Soviet corrupt, low-moral values). I've lived in the same one room (not bedroom, just room) apartment since I was born 1982, my parents both had PhDs and got paid less than a janitor at my school.
People are taught that why bust your ass at school, then at work, when you can get money the easy way. Hard times during Communism and then Post-Communism made people go into the "survival" mode, so for women it was to have several boyfriends that would provide for them, and for men....anything to make their lives and screaming wives easier.
Triggs, interesting comments thanks. I'd be interested to know your opinion of Moscow and of the increasing number of wealthy Russians and oligarchs.
ReplyDeletevery interesting perspective on serial marriage in Russia... and btw, LOVE your writing style.
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