March 24, 2010

Do you believe in Angels?

Today my faith in human nature was restored. As I have got older, I have become more cynical about life, the universe and our society. However, sometimes a ray of light breaks through the black clouds and my naive trust and faith in human nature is once again restored. I have been in Moscow now since September and so far, I have found many Russians to be rather serious, rude and rather rigid in their attitude. This has come from my teaching experience here. I have also met a mad women who has been acting as an intermediary for English communication, at a well known English school franchise here in Moscow. I have since left that school.  Anyway, back to the topic. Today, I had to visit another school at a Metro station called "Chistyie Prudy". I took junior with me on my back in his backpack baby carrier. I left the station and arrived outside, blinking in the gray light, clutching my crumpled emailed directions to the school and feeling rather lost. I saw a girl with a map and asked her the way, she looked at my email and said, "follow me I show you" she held my arm as we crossed the snow and I'll admit a naughty thought or two popped into my male head then slammed the door and left feeling ashamed. We walked through a long park park, I made conversation, as I felt she wanted to practice her English. She took me right to the door of my meeting and left with a smile never to be seen again.

On my way back, I went down into the depths of the Metro station again at Chistyie Prudy, to make my journey back home. Logic would say that I would just go to the other platform on the other side and take the train back the way I had come but the sign did not have my station on it. Again, I asked a girl, because I know that most young Russians speak some English. She said I'll show you, we went back up the escalator and she said I have time "we will take the train together", I had worried momentary thoughts, that junior and I would be taken by this woman to meet some strange, unshaven men and that we would be bound and transported by truck to some far land and sold on as slaves by this unknown women, for I have an active imagination. Luckily, this did not happen. We took the train changed two stations and she took me to the train that would go back to my station back home. I gave her my business card, shook her hand and said goodbye. When I arrived home, I had a call on my mobile, it was her, she asked me if I got back home OK.

These girls were normally dressed and nothing amazing to look at but just very kind. It may have been my rare Hollywood good looks (said with tongue in cheek), or that they wanted English practice or the fact that I had a cute baby on my back or maybe they just took pity on me? I suppose you can say that there are good and bad people all over the world, in every city, town and village across this world of ours. Russia is no different. I believe there are angles out there, you just have to see them and find them.

7 comments:

  1. Interesting story and I can relate to the worries about what might happen. The fact that bad stuff happens all over the world in your conclusion is an apt observation as I listen to the news this morning of three flash mobs of teenagers in Philly since Jan. and a fatal home invasion not ten miles from my home. The essence of terrorism is that we are uneasy from not knowing when to worry and what to avoid or who may be one of those "bad people." Wouldn't it be great if we could find more angels and fewer demons? Hope for the best.

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  2. I've been living in Moscow since 2003, over 7 years and I've been nothing but impressed with the manners and helpfulness of many Russians, more helpful than many of my fellow Americans and a lot more helpful than most arrogant Brits. (I've spent a lot of time in the UK) But Russia is a changing country and sadly a lot of these changes are not for the good, many Russians are easily impressed by Hollywood's version of life. But throughout the 7 years I've spent here in Moscow, people were always willing to help me, I can name several instances where Russians stopped to help me when I was hurt (slipped on ice and broke my arm) Anybody who thinks Russians are not friendly or helpful just has not the time to get to know the true Russian people.

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  3. Not all Brits are arrogant that's a bit of a generalization! Us Brits a famous for our binge drinking and hooliganism more than our arrogance. I hope I will see more of this nice attitude but when I do it makes my day. People in cities are busy and its a dog it dog, get ahead of you culture, Moscow is no different in that respect.

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  4. I think you are absolutely right. They are around, we just have to be willing to see them.

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  5. Your thoughts about angels in Moscow scare me. Look around - this is one of the ugliest places in Europe - rude, dirty, full of mud and crime. IMHO I doubt such city can give a birth to some angels. Just try to be on guard here, please.

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  6. Moscow is a megapolis do not forget that please. Most russian would help you if they see you're lost or in trouble. may be they won't come at once but if you say some words for help -be sure you'll get your help. As for angels - yes russian do not smile at you in return. (its american manner to smile to every person they see - the difference is that we got true smile -if you like to see a person then you smile - if you do not care -why should you??? it's not a question of politeness - it's a question of true feeling. That's what we're -russians
    Sincerely, Oleg The Ubiquitous

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  7. Once I was standing on the Metro platform, just holding my map, not even looking at it, while my husband and a friend went to look at the lovely architecture of the station (I forget which one it was). A Russian couple standing near me asked me something . . . I raised an eyebrow, and they said in English, "Are you lost? Can you find where you want to go?"

    Of course, I was fine . . . I love the Metro and manage it just fine, but it was so sweet of them to offer!

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